Boil the Liquid: In a medium-sized saucepan, bring the water (or broth) to a boil. Add salt and pepper.
Add the Cornmeal: Gradually whisk in the cornmeal to the boiling liquid, stirring constantly to avoid lumps.
Cook the Cornmeal: Lower the heat to simmer, and let the cornmeal cook for 10-15 minutes, stirring occasionally. It should thicken as it cooks.
Add the Butter: Once the cornmeal reaches your desired consistency, stir in the butter until it melts and blends into the dish. Taste and adjust seasoning if necessary.
Serve and Enjoy: Remove from heat, serve with your preferred toppings, and enjoy the creamy goodness!